But this is why it's so important to be grounded in the Word, in the actual text of the Scriptures, so that when you feel like there's nowhere to turn, God can bring them to your mind.
If you don't have at least a word or two of that bouncing around in the back of your head somewhere, you're unlikely to find it when you need it.Cast all your anxieties on him, because he cares for you. Discipline yourselves, keep alert. Like a roaring lion your adversary the devil prowls around, looking for someone to devour. Resist him, steadfast in your faith, for you know that your brothers and sisters in all the world are undergoing the same kinds of suffering. And after you have suffered for a little while, the God of all grace, who has called you to his eternal glory in Christ, will himself restore, support, strengthen, and establish you. ~ 1 Peter 5:7-10
But beyond that, I realized today, all of a sudden (duh), that prayer is such an incredible gift. When we don't know the answers to things (important things, not what color socks to wear today), we can pray about it. God hears our prayers, wants good for us more than even we ourselves do, and will lead us, guide us, and give us the answers, if we're ready to hear.
If we have something bottled up inside that we just need to get out, and don't feel like we have anyone we can tell, God's there for that to. He's always listening, always available, isn't trying to figure out how he's going to one-up your story with one of his own.
If we're just confused and don't know what we're feeling or thinking, He's big enough to handle that, and to help us sort it out.
Imagine if we had a God who didn't have time for us, who played mind games with us, who had more important things than us. Imagine if we had a God that we had to placate with burnt offerings to win his favor, or who only held special councils that decreed unchangeable orders.
Imagine if we had a God who didn't really love us.
Praise Him that we don't! Praise Him that He has given us Jesus Christ, "who died, yes, who was raised, who is at the right hand of God, who indeed intercedes for us. Who will separate us from the love of Christ? Will hardship, or distress, or persecution, or famine, or nakedness, or peril, or sword?...No, in all these things, we are more than conquerors through him who loved us. For I am convinced that neither death, nor life, nor angels, nor rulers, nor things present, nor things to come, nor powers, nor height, nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord."